Sex Toys for Beginners: 6 Best Adult Toys in the Philippines

Finding sex toys for beginners doesn’t have to feel awkward or intimidating. The right toy can help you learn what feels good, deepen intimacy with a partner, and turn curiosity into confidence. And with today’s wide range of discreet, high-quality designs, pleasure has never been more accessible (or more normal!).

Conversations about sexuality are becoming more open, yet many still prefer privacy when exploring adult toys in the Philippines. That’s where Pink Bunny makes things easier. From compact vibrators and dildos to couples’ toys that sync through mobile apps, every item is chosen for comfort, safety, and body awareness—perfect for those taking their first step into pleasure.

This guide walks you through the best sex toys for beginners, what each one does, and a few simple tips to help you get started safely.

Beginner Sex Toys: 6 Best Options and Tips

Before you start browsing, it helps to know what’s out there and what fits your comfort level. Sex toys come in different shapes, sensations, and purposes. Some are designed for solo exploration, others are made to share with a partner. The key is to start simple, stay safe, and choose what feels right for your body. Here are your available options.

1. Vibrators

Vibrators are among the best beginner-friendly sex toys because they’re simple, versatile, and easy to control. They use gentle vibrations to stimulate sensitive areas like the clitoris, nipples, or other erogenous zones. Most come with adjustable speeds, body-safe silicone materials, and quiet motors that make them ideal for first-time users.

You’ll find different types of vibrators for beginners. Bullet vibrators are compact and precise, perfect for external stimulation. Rabbit vibrators combine internal and clitoral sensations, offering a fuller experience. Wand massagers provide stronger, broad vibrations for body-wide relaxation, while clit suckers use air-pulse technology for touch-free stimulation.

There are also G-spot and egg vibrators, which target deeper pleasure zones, and app-controlled models that let you or a partner adjust the intensity from anywhere.

Some of the best picks include the LELO SONA Cruise, a quiet clit sucker with soft sonic pulses; the Lovense Ferri, a wearable panty vibrator controlled via mobile app; and the Pretty Love Cornelius rabbit, a dual-action toy designed for easy, comfortable use. Each is rechargeable, waterproof, and crafted from premium silicone for safe, long-term use.

Beginner vibrator tips

• Start on the lowest setting to learn your body’s response.
• Use a water-based lubricant for smoother contact and stronger sensations.
• Clean your toy before and after every use with mild soap and warm water.
• Store it in a dry, discreet case to keep it hygienic and ready for next time.
• Read user guides for vibrator tips specific to your model, especially app-controlled ones.

2. Dildos

Dildos are another classic among beginner sex toys. Unlike vibrators, they don’t rely on motorized stimulation. Instead, they let you control the pace, pressure, and rhythm. This makes them ideal for anyone wanting a more natural, realistic experience. Most are molded from body-safe silicone or TPE to feel soft yet firm, closely mimicking real skin. You’ll find both non-vibrating and vibrating types.

Non-vibe dildos, such as the Lovetoy 7″ Sliding Skin Dual Layer Dong Flesh, provide a lifelike texture and flexibility that make them easy to use and clean. For a little extra sensation, vibrating models like the Chisa Thick Realistic 8” or Lovetoy 7.5” Real Extreme Vibrating Dildo add steady internal vibration without being overwhelming. These are great for easing into stimulation.

Beginner dildo tips

• Choose a smaller or medium size first to avoid discomfort.
• Use plenty of water-based lubricant to reduce friction.
• Try different positions to find what feels most natural.
• Clean with warm water and mild soap, and store it in a dry pouch.
• Check product labels for body-safe materials and avoid sharing without a condom.

3. Strap-ons

Strap-ons are designed for partners who want to explore penetration play, role reversal, or new angles of intimacy. They consist of a harness worn around the hips and a dildo attachment, which can be either fixed or removable. Many are adjustable for a secure, comfortable fit and made from body-safe silicone or leather-like materials that allow flexibility during movement.

There are a few kinds of strap-ons to choose from. Full strap-on dildo sets come ready with both harness and attachment. For example, the Lovetoy Easy Strap-On Dildo Set 7.0″ balances comfort and control for first-timers.

Strap-on harnesses, such as the Lovetoy Easy Strap-On Harness, are adjustable and compatible with different dildos. This type of harness is ideal if you prefer to experiment with size and texture later on. Some users also explore hollow strap-ons, which are designed to fit over the wearer’s body, but these are less common for beginners.

Beginner strap-on tips

• Start with a lightweight harness and smaller dildo to stay comfortable.
• Use a water-based lubricant to make penetration smoother.
• Practice wearing and adjusting the harness before use to find a stable fit.
• Communicate openly with your partner about pacing and pressure.
• Clean both harness and attachments after each use to maintain hygiene.

4. Anal toys

Anal toys for beginners are designed for gentle, controlled stimulation. They come in different forms, from smooth butt plugs to beaded textures and prostate massagers. All share one rule: start small and go slow. These toys help improve comfort and relaxation, especially when paired with a good water-based lubricant.

Non-vibrating plugs like the Chisa Silicone Plug 4.5” or the petite Lovetoy Lure Beaded Anal Plug are ideal for first-timers due to their tapered tips and soft silicone build. If you want added sensation, the Chisa Prostate Screamer 5.5” vibrating plug provides low, steady vibrations without feeling too intense. 

Anal beads such as the Pretty Love Monroe or Chisa Elite Lovers Beads 5.9 allow you to explore gradual insertion and rhythmic withdrawal, a favorite among many beginners.

Beginner anal toy tips

• Always use a generous amount of water-based lube to reduce friction.
• Never rush insertion. Relaxation is key to pleasure.
• Clean your toy before and after each use with warm water and mild soap.
• Avoid toys without a flared base; it prevents accidents and ensures safe play.
• Take breaks and stop immediately if you feel discomfort.

5. Masturbators

Masturbators are designed to simulate different kinds of stimulation for men, offering a realistic and customizable experience. They come in several styles, such as compact sleeves and full-sized torsos. Each caters to comfort and personal preference.

For those exploring for the first time, start with smaller, handheld designs before trying more complex ones with suction or vibration features.

The most common types include pocket masturbators and masturbator cups, both lightweight and easy to clean. Budget-friendly models like the Pretty Love Pleasure Egg 3 and Chisa Pleasure Sleeve Masturbator provide gentle internal textures that enhance sensation without being too tight.

If you prefer something with a bit more structure, the Pretty Love Vacuum Cup (Mouth) offers adjustable suction, while the Lovetoy Pleasure Brew Masturbator-Blond Ale adds a playful twist with its discreet design.

Beginner masturbator tips

• Apply a water-based lubricant before use for smoother motion and a more realistic feel.
• Wash the inner sleeve with warm water and antibacterial soap after each session.
• Let it dry completely before storing to prevent moisture buildup.
• Start with simple textures before exploring vibration or suction features.
• For hygiene, avoid sharing and use condoms if necessary.

6. Cock rings and sleeves

Cock rings and sleeves are designed to enhance arousal by improving blood flow and sensitivity. They can help maintain firmness, extend playtime, and make sensations feel stronger for both partners. These also make great beginner sex toys for couples, helping partners explore shared pleasure and rhythm together.

For beginners, it’s best to start with softer silicone or stretchable rings rather than rigid metal ones. Basic non-vibe rings like the Chisa Beaded Cock Ring Set or Lovetoy Power Plus Cockring (Clear) are affordable and comfortable choices for first-timers.

Want a little more stimulation? The Baile Brave Man 3A vibrating ring adds a gentle buzz that can please both partners during use. Penis sleeves, such as the Pretty Love Penis Sleeve with Ball Strap or Lovetoy Add 1.5” Nature Extender (Vibrating), provide extra girth and texture while remaining soft and flexible.

Beginner cock ring & sleeve tips

• Use plenty of water-based lubricant to make wearing and removing easier.
• Always ensure the fit is snug but not too tight to avoid discomfort.
• Limit wear time to 20–30 minutes per session.
• Clean immediately after use and let dry completely before storage.
• Avoid stacking multiple rings or using metal ones until you’re more experienced.

Pleasure Starts with Confidence

Exploring your or your partner’s body should feel natural, safe, and exciting. Remember to start small, stay curious, and choose products made for comfort and trust. With the right guidance and quality options, discovering what brings you pleasure becomes less about nerves and more about confidence.

Whether you’re shopping solo or as a couple, Pink Bunny is a trusted sex toy shop in the Philippines that makes it easy to find the perfect fit. Visit our branches in Makati, Angeles, and Cebu, or explore our curated selection online for high-quality pleasure essentials! Enjoy free delivery for purchases over ₱1,490, same-day service within NCR, cash on delivery, and discreet packaging.

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