BDSM Sex is a sexual experience where fantasy is awakened. With a dominant/submissive setup. Pleasure comes from different degrees of pain and control. Enjoy it more with BDSM Sex Toys!
Wonder why extreme rides are exciting? You go up and down, sideways with only a strap/support on your shoulder and back, dangerous yet you give it a go. The study showed that those with higher brain activity in the striatum, a region involved in dopamine release, to the new face made higher risky choices. Intimacy has a similar connection to this, a pleasure on low pain, being dominated, yet safe and loved.
What is BDSM?
BDSM sex stands for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism. Practiced as dominant-submissive actions in bed. Many if not all of these practices need mutual consent on both. This is important since BDSM involves different degrees of pain, restraints, and servitude.
Bondage
Restrict movement of one’s partner with the likes of ropes and handcuffs.
Discipline
Exert punishment to one’s partner, by the dominant one.
Dominance & Submission
To give way to the desire and pleasure of the other, with servitude and willingness of submission.
Sadism and Masochism
Pleasure feels from inflicting and receiving pain.
Being Dominant
Before diving into BDSM sex, you and your partner must first decide on who will be dominant and submissive. It’s also good to swap roles so that both of you can experience the sexual pleasure and intimacy of it. In BDSM, dominant and submissive are also called top/bottom. Where the one on top can whip, spank, tie and clamp the bottom partner.
Being Submissive
Submissive means giving control of everything to your dominant partner. Open your mind and body for your partner to explore and take over. But only allow the things that are comfortable to you. Although BDSM is for low pain and a rough approach, it should be guided with balance, affection, and love.
How to Start: BDSM Sex and Roleplaying
Role-play is a basic component of BDSM. Just like with everyday living where a person is on top of a command, while the other respects and follows: Teacher-student, Doctor-patient, Boss-secretary. It involves two or more people acting out a particular situation or fantasy, always with two sides, dominant and submissive. Spice up by making and following scripts for a more immersive experience.
There are many ways to enjoy BDSM, aside from role-play. Bondage (restraint or restriction), Wax (dripping hot wax on the skin), Impact (spanking, slapping, caning, flogging), Sensation (using tools such as feathers, a paddle, burlap, on the skin), and Sensory deprivation (blindfolds, earmuffs, earplugs). To start, you may go with simple blindfolds and restraints.
Sometimes things go rough and extreme. To fully enjoy BDSM sex, we want it to be safe. You can use words like go, slowly, and stop to let your dominant partner know what you feel. The most important part of BDSM sex is the act of consent. Partners should always make sure everyone gives good consent and express clear boundaries. Boundaries can be discussed in a verbal agreement, or a more casual conversation about desires and limits.
Sex Toys for BDSM
Another way to enjoy safe and nice BDSM sex is by using sex toys. You may consider whipping your partner with things not tested and suitable for pleasure, who would want exciting sex to turn into a messy situation, right? You can check on the complete BDSM Sex Toys and Sex Essentials here. BDSM Sex Kits are also available.
BED RESTRAINT BONDAGE
The simple bondage equipment can be installed under the bed. Connecting joint is made of a stainless steel ring, which is strong and durable. And the use of a stretching buckle can help you adjust the length of the middle connection belt, which is suitable for various sizes.
10 METER BONDAGE FETISH RED
Soft material that won’t rub or chafe skin. Made with durable high-quality cotton. Ideal for bondage activities
STRUGGLE MY MASK
Unisex, for him and her to enjoy. Can also be used as a luxurious sleep mask, stretchy elastic for a secure, comfortable fit. Silky soft satin-feel material is comfortable enough for prolonged wear.
STRUGGLE MY SPANKER
Start gently with the silky satin to awaken your flesh before building sensation to firmer, sharper spanks with the faux leather side for intensified play. Beneath the silver satin is a cushion of neoprene to diffuse the impact of each hit for a softer, more sensual spank.
BE QUIET MOUTH BALL GAG
Keep your partner silent with this ball gag. With silicone materials, it is fully adjustable thanks to its closure on the back. The ball is soft, comfortable, and very easy to clean.
Lastly, have fun!
Remember that it’s just a game, relax, and enjoy the experience with both of you exploring things you never did before. Respect boundaries and limitations. Avoid carrying the dominant-submissive relationship out of bed. Try things out with love and consent for a better sexual relationship.